Hot baths, a good book, scented candles and a glass of Merlot. This always help me after a long day, (or night ;-) ) I enjoy murder mysteries, walking, painting and pretty much doing anything with my hands. I love giving massages. I find them therapeutic for both the giver and receiver if the mood is right. And lastly, I loooovvveeee talking. Communication is the key to everything in my opinion.